Dear You needing followers,

It’s a double blessing because you look great, and people tend to follow beautiful people. But, as you’ve probably caught my point; I’m talking about your value which gives much stronger attraction. Why do you think many people follow certain people?

Hey, if you’re interested in ‘how to make friends,’ then, read this letter: Dear You looking for friends,. It’ll help you to find a good friend.

So, what values am I trying to suggest to you? Here are some three secrets I want to tell you:

Appreciate your life. Are you investing to yourself rather than watching meaningless media? Are you creating your own stories to tell the next generation? Are you developing your idea to bring out of your brain? People who live their own lives are attractive and get followed by many because others are blind to find their own stories. There’s just something attractive who are crazy about there own stories. Why don’t you be the crazy one?

Be a follower. Find a mentor. We live once, so we need guidance. Tomorrow is never experienced yet, but they might’ve learned from their stumbles. They will give you some tips and tricks to minimize your loss. So, meet a mentor who can teach you the core value of life. For me, my friends and parents, books and valuable media, and God are my mentors. These learning will definitely make you an attractive person.

Hey, but always be careful. We see many fall from the sky because of them losing the their original values. Understand that you have a limit. Admit that you have a different talent from that guy. Know that the audience who read your story are different from her audience. So, focus on the core values because only the people who are interested in your story and values will be your true followers.

Quantity seems an attractive measure of a success. But, hey, the true followers will expand your legacy for you. So, keep focusing on your value, and let people chase you.

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Dear You feeling lazy,

Hey you, I know exactly how you feel now because that’s how I feel right at the moment. Probably, you can’t focus at work or with your studies, or you don’t even have a motivation to move around. In fact, many times, I sit in front of the computer, watch YouTube for hours, eat some junk food, and return to sleep. How useless and unproductive times! I know, but at least we need to think, ‘Ahhh! I want to get out of this life pattern!’

So, the question is, ‘How should we get over this?’

Recently, I organized my thoughts and tried to come up with a better lifestyle. Still in a process but now, I don’t have to lag my brain out saying, ‘I am gonna do it after watching this prank video,’ any more. Instead, I can start my task right away not waiting until the last day. How do I do that?

Here’s a cool way to do step up your life game. Just remember this: “I am a VIP (very important person).” It sounds funny to philosophical, but it is true that we live only once. So, why can’t you be the main character? Why can’t you get all those super expensive items and potions that game characters obtain in online games? In fact, you can. By changing the perspective of your roll in your own life, everything comes in the “right” position.

Obviously, you’re the main character in your own life movie. However, you often think, “I am just a cameo of his or her movie,” or at least act like one. No! You are the main character. You get to choose the pie. You get the luxury house. You will be successful. You become happy. You are the creator of the main stream of your life movie. You’re the Vlogger! Organize your thoughts. And start thinking that you’re “The VIP.”

Set the goal like the movie characters do. Set it high. And start thinking. Think about the goal for the longest time. Think constantly, continuously, and constructively. And, think it everyday. Also, remember some ‘No’s.

Comfort zone, is one of the problems. It is constantly created. It will drag you to have the same thoughts as you did in the beginning. That’s why you need to create a routine of practicing your new ideas. For example, try to eat lunch with different people each day. Vlog and blog each day. Take photos. Write poems. Prepare presentations. Make an art. Draw a picture. Keep moving your brain. Challenge new ideas.

I know the life story goes up and down. It seems there are more downs than ups. It’s because we tend to remember negative things more. If that bothers you, keep recording the good times, and refresh them every morning. Keep a diary of positive memories, and meditate at each beginning of the day.

For last, I want to motivate you with a big hug. There’s so many things that words cannot give strength to you when a small genuine hug can do. So, keep it up, and let’s turn to the next chapter of our life: Chapter X. Victory.

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Dear You with stresses,

I know you are having a stressful day today. Whatever that reason is, I honestly don’t have an answer for you. But, I want to help you to release that stress. That stress from work, sadness from a break up, or burdens from your life, just put everything on side and let’s just get out and have some fresh air. Are you ready?

So, what do you like to do in your free time? Or, am I asking a wrong question? May be you might not have a free time. But hey, that’s why you need to make one right now. Let’s put down with what you’re doing, and get out. Get out from that box, and let’s start moving!

Oh, you don’t know what to do? No worries. That’s why I am writing this for you. Well, do you have a favorite place to go? A thing that you wanna be good at? Or, your favorite food that you always get? So, basically just pick one, and do it. Well, if you need an example, I will show you what I did.

I drove to Twin Peaks just because I couldn’t focus. And, here’s the video I made about the trip:

Well, after some stressful days, I got a new hobby. I started Vlogging on Youtube. If you watched my video, I really appreciate it! I am really having fun these days with my new hobby. It really brings my stress level down! So, find something that you like and get rid of your stress! I am just an ordinary guy, so I am pretty sure we have something in common. I hope you get better soon!

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